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In a recent site I addressed six practical matters that naturists can do to be more proactive in promoting naturism. The first idea was to come from the closet' as a naturist to trustworthy individuals family, friends and colleagues. It's interesting that this idea is frequently satisfied with a reasonable number of lively dialogue. It's after all a sensitive problem. It takes time to reach the stage of taking your clothes off in public, and it takes even more hours getting to the stage of telling others about one's experience and choice to practice social nudity.
One of the interesting answers we received (about the recommendation to come out as a naturist) was criticism of our FKK organization's leaders because of their use of pen names. The criticism, which was posted as public opinion, was skeptical and judgmental (peculiar really coming from fellow naturists), implying that FKK leaders are hypocritical to propose that naturists come out', while they themselves use pen names. The criticism was so far off balance that it deserves some attention, to ensure new nudies, who may encounter such extremist approaches, don't shy away from naturism and the delight of sharing our naked culture with others.
Let us begin by noting that the recommendation to come out as a naturist was balanced with sufficient advice. We advocated that the coming out be exercised with caution aimed at sure people in your life and with the understanding there are some folks you may never tell your nudie experiences to. This is because, for some people, it can have serious effects - in the work place for example. Use of pen names in national media is one kind of caution that many people pick for all types of valid motives. In fact it is a standard practice in many settings other than simply nudism .
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The thought of coming out is in no way hypocritical with respect to using pen names on the internet or in the world media at large. There is www.bakergovt.com/__media__/js/netsoltrademark.php?d=naturism.buzz and tremendous common sense difference between coming out to sure people within your real life family, close social groups and professional network vs. coming out willy-nilly to the whole world through on-line social media, movie, television, etc. Graduating from the use of a pen name to the use of one's actual name can be a really big decision with far reaching consequences, which for some individuals involves many complex factors. Naturally, many performers and writers use pen names their entire lives. They even use their nom de plume when advocating for certain causes. Yet it seems like just in the nudie world do we've a handful of tyrannical naturists who vehemently and vocally argue that all their hard work doesn't mean much because they don't attach their birth name. Some rationales that nudie leaders who decide to come out to family and friends, but not to the world at large, include things like: stalkers, intimidation, public slander, job related susceptibility, societal or extended family complications and the list goes on.
The sort of immature, one-size-fits-all doctrine, that accuses naturist leaders of hypocrisy for the use of pen names is thoughtless indeed. Arrogantly chiding some people for not measuring as much as an artificially contrived and fanatically demanded set of rules makes zero sense. That is certainly the surest way to set the wrong example to new nudies and may (understandably) scare them away.
I mean after all, what these critics of FKK are actually indicating by their thoughtless comments is that anyone who needs to become involved in naturism and desires to blog or advocate for it within the media, is a hypocrite if they aren't willing or able to divulge to the entire world all their private info?
At FKK we don't strive to establish such callous expectancies of others. The use of pen names by some FKK leaders rather than by others is the FKK manner of saying it is all about the love!' We usually do not expect folks to give up their privacy or personal independence in order to become a nudie if they don't freely choose to achieve this.
In conclusion, let us expect that most nudies respect each other (naturist leader or not) enough to enable one another the common courtesy to be as open or discreet as they choose about their alternative to practice naturism. barysh.org/bitrix/rk.php?goto=nudistpics.xyz should be enabled to thrive in an environment that allows them to progress to whatever extent of coming out' that they're comfortable with in their own time and own way without being judged for their choices.
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We're Steve and Susanne, leaders of the FKK Upstate New York Chapter. We appreciate the freedom, rest, and healing power of naturism, and are interested in sharing our experiences with others. Please see our Facebook page facebook.com/FKKupstateny to get acquainted or join in any of our actions.